thanks, I believe that updating did fix my issue.
While I'm here I can answer RebelRousers question:
if you look at the "state configuration" tab of the bar you want to change (bar 1) you will find a section marked "modifier based switching". you can set the "shift" paging to page 2 and not have to use the scroll bar. right above that is the "stance configuration" section where you should have "page 3" set for stealth. you can use similar settings for the other bars you want to change.
your other question about default bar state is the page which appears when you are in normal fighting stance and no modifier is pressed.