SmartRes should already remember who has been ressed and not pick them for another 60 sec until their dialog box is gone. So your first request is already for me and everyone i have talked to.
Also i haven't had anyone else having problems with notifications.
What language is your cielnt using? And have you updated to the latest version?
Reinstalled the latest version of the addon using embedded libs (I use externals by default) but it still has the same bugs. No Error Message or anything, using enGB Client...