is ther any way i can load somone elses X-Perl UnitFrames layout?
Yes; however, you'll have to edit the data by hand.
The saved variables files are here, "<path to WoW>\WTF\Account\<WoW account name>\SavedVariables\." Look for all the files named "XPerl*.lua. Copy the desired files into your SavedVariables folder, then open them all with a text editor and change the character's name(s) to your character's name(s).